You’ve already survived the hardest part... now it’s time to remember who you are.
REGAIN YOUR LIFE™ After Divorce...
A soul-deep, step-by-step journey for the woman who’s ready to rise after divorce — not just to survive, but to finally come home to herself.
This isn’t about starting over.
It’s about remembering who you’ve always been — and finally becoming her.
LET ME ASK YOU SOMETHING…
“Is this really it for me now?”
“Will I ever feel like myself again?”
“How do I move forward when everything feels broken?”
You’ve tried to keep it together. You’ve smiled when it hurt. You’ve been strong for everyone else. But now, it’s time for you.
You’re not just craving peace, you’re longing for clarity, self-trust, and a life that actually feels like yours.
You’ve held everything together for so long.
You’ve done your best to stay strong, to keep going, to make it all work — even when your heart was breaking.
But deep down, you know...
There’s more to life than this.
And you’re ready to feel like you again.
Not the version who’s just surviving — but the woman who wakes up each day with quiet confidence, peace, and presence.
This is the journey of REGAIN YOUR LIFE™ after divorce.
And it was made for you.
You’ve lost yourself in the process of divorce and are craving a way to reconnect with you again.
You’re done with surface-level healing and are ready for something deeper, gentler, real.
You want to feel whole again — not because someone else tells you who to be, but because you finally remember who you are.
You’re longing for peace. Not just the absence of pain — but the presence of you.
This is for the woman who’s ready to rise — not by pretending she’s fine, but by reclaiming her truth, one loving step at a time.
Renay Burke
Thank you so much, Deborah. You never judged me, you just saw me, and helped me see myself clearly again.
That time in my life was one of the darkest I’ve ever known, but through our life coaching sessions, I began to rediscover who I really was.
You helped me embrace my mistakes, stop judging myself so harshly, and step into a new kind of strength I didn’t know I had.
I’ll always carry what I’ve learned from you and you’ll always be my mentor.
Regain Your Life isn’t just another programme filled with information that leaves you more overwhelmed than before.
It’s a soul-deep journey guided by my signature QC Method™ — a gentle, powerful roadmap created specifically for women who’ve lost themselves in the pain of divorce and are finally ready to find their way back.
The QC Method™ is built around four transformational phases:
This is where the fog starts to lift.
You’ll begin to untangle who you are from who you had to be.
We’ll explore your identity, your truth, and the quiet whispers within that are asking for your attention — so you can finally see yourself clearly again.
💬 “I remember who I am, and I’m ready to meet myself with love.”
Here is where you take your power back.
You’ll learn to spot the beliefs, patterns, and emotional ties that are keeping you stuck — and gently choose again.
You’ll stop living by default and start creating a life that actually feels like yours.
💬 “I choose what I believe, how I feel, and what I allow from this moment forward.”
Now we build the brave within.
This phase is about real-life, soul-deep bravery — not pretending to be fearless, but taking the next small step even when you're scared.
You’ll begin to show up, speak up, and stand up for yourself — with quiet confidence and unshakable self-trust.
💬 “I am allowed to take up space. My voice, my truth, my dreams — they matter.”
The final phase is where everything integrates.
You reconnect with your body, your intuition, your voice, and your vision for the future.
You become the woman who leads herself with grace — and finally feels at home in her own life.
💬 “I’m not starting over. I’m starting from me — and that changes everything.”
This is not a race.
This is a return.
Each phase is designed to walk beside you — step by step — through the messy middle, the quiet rebuild, and the powerful reawakening of the woman you’re here to be.
You don’t have to figure it all out on your own anymore.
The path is here.
And it starts with a quiet yes.
Alison Hunt
Deborah has been absolutely amazing.
If I’m honest, at the start of the programme, I didn’t really believe it would work for me. I’d lost so much faith in myself.
But I couldn’t have been more wrong.
Deborah helped me believe in myself again and gave me the confidence I needed to move forward with my life.
This isn’t surface-level self-help.
This is a gentle, grounded reintroduction to you — and the tools, insights, and practices that will support you for life.
Here’s what’s included:
✨ 12 soul-led transformational modules that guide you through every phase of healing, rebuilding, and rising again — each one building upon the last to help you embody lasting change.
✨ Monthly live coaching calls with Debs — soulful, safe spaces to be seen, heard, and supported wherever you are on the path.
✨ Daily ‘Note to Self’ audio messages — because words matter, and hearing the right ones at the right moment can change everything.
✨ Introduction to guided meditation and how it gently supports emotional healing, calm, and connection to your inner voice — even if you’ve never meditated before.
✨ Quiet Mirror Moments™ — your private moments of self-reflection, designed to help you gently see the woman you’re becoming.
✨ Journaling prompts + integration tools — not homework, but heart-work — to help you process and embody what you're learning with compassion.
✨ Private community space — surrounded by like-hearted women walking a similar path.
No noise, no pressure. Just real connection.
This is a gentle reset of how you see yourself, speak to yourself, and walk with yourself — and it’s going to change everything.
Quiet the noise of fear and guilt.
You’ve spent long enough questioning your worth, replaying the past, and carrying guilt that was never yours to begin with. Inside Regain Your Life™, we gently untangle those old patterns and stories so you can finally breathe, feel grounded, and move forward without the constant hum of self-doubt in the background.
Trust yourself to make decisions without over-explaining or overthinking.
No more spiraling, overthinking, or wondering if you're “doing it wrong.” You’ll rebuild deep inner trust, learning how to tune into your intuition, speak your truth, and make decisions that feel aligned and empowering, instead of paralysing.
Untangle from the patterns that keep you stuck in the past.
Because healing isn’t about pretending it never happened. It’s about gently loosening the grip it has on you so you can finally move forward with peace, not pain.
Let go of shame and soften your inner critic
The shame you carry is heavy and undeserved. Together, we’ll gently shift the voice in your head from harshness to compassion. You’ll learn how to stop attacking yourself for what happened, and start giving yourself the grace and kindness you so freely give to others.
Stop people-pleasing and start honoring your truth
You’ve spent so long putting everyone else first, trying to keep the peace and avoid disappointing anyone. But deep down, you know it’s time. Time to listen to that quiet voice within, the one that’s been asking for more. You’ll learn to speak your truth without guilt, set boundaries that feel kind but firm, and finally show up for yourself the way you always have for others.
Start living your life for you
No more waiting for permission. No more trying to be who others expect you to be. This is your chance to create a life that feels aligned, expansive, and yours. A life where you wake up with clarity, confidence, and quiet joy, knowing you’re living on your terms now.
Phase 1 - Clarity
Rediscover & Reconnect
with Yourself
The foundations of self-awareness, confidence, and healing.
Most women try to fix their lives by pushing through, staying strong, and putting on a brave face — but true healing doesn’t start with action. It starts with awareness.
In this first module, we slow everything down so you can finally tune in to how you’re really feeling beneath the surface — and why that matters more than you think.
You’ll discover:
💗 What confidence actually is (and isn’t) and why you’ve been measuring it all wrong.
💗 How to gently reconnect with yourself after years of surviving, pleasing, and performing.
💗 What your emotions are trying to tell you about your beliefs, your wounds, and your worth.
💗Why self-awareness is the first step to lasting transformation in your confidence, boundaries, relationships, and identity.
💗 How to uncover what’s really been holding you back (it’s not what you think).
By the end of this module, you'll have a deep sense of where you truly are emotionally, mentally, and spiritually and a clear understanding of what needs to shift, so you can rebuild your confidence from the inside out.
Because this isn’t just about healing — it’s about coming home to yourself.
Gently changing the way you think about yourself, so you can start changing your life.
Most women try to change their lives by changing their actions. But true change begins with how you think about yourself.
In this module, you'll be introduced to the Results Formula — the simple but life-changing idea that your thoughts create your feelings, your feelings drive your actions, and your actions shape your results.
If you’ve ever felt stuck in patterns you can’t explain, self-doubt, procrastination, people-pleasing — this is where it starts to shift.
Understand how your inner world has been shaping your outer world.
Begin noticing the silent beliefs holding you back.
Learn how to change the way you think — without guilt or pressure.
Feel the early flickers of confidence, just by changing the story.
Know how to stop spiraling into thoughts that keep you small.
Understand what’s really been blocking you — and how to release it.
Feel more in control of your choices, your emotions, and your next chapter
This is where your new story begins — not from pushing harder, but from shifting what you believe is possible.
What you carry inside shows up around you. Let's shift what you're carrying, one small moment at a time.
Have you ever noticed that when you’re feeling down, more things just seem to go wrong?
Or that when you’re in a good mood, life feels a little easier, like people smile back, or things fall into place more naturally?
That’s not a coincidence.
In this module, we’ll gently explore something that might be new to you.
The idea that your emotions, your thoughts, and your energy aren’t just happening inside you… they’re actually shaping what you experience on the outside too.
You don’t need to “be positive” all the time or fake anything.
But what you can do and what I’ll guide you through is start to notice how you feel, understand what that feeling is telling you, and take tiny, powerful steps to shift it.
This is about lifting the heaviness and starting to feel more like you again.
💗 Understand why life has felt stuck or heavy (and that it’s not your fault).
💗 Learn how your emotions quietly influence what comes into your life.
💗 Discover your “emotional frequency” and how to move through it, not suppress it.
💗 Begin choosing thoughts, feelings, and actions that gently raise your energy.
💗 Feel lighter, calmer, and more hopeful — like the fog is starting to clear.
As your energy shifts, so does what you attract — one feeling, one choice, one moment at a time.
Phase 2 - Choice
Reframe Your Challenges & Reclaim Your Power
What you see is shaped by how you feel. Let’s begin to gently shift the view.
Have you ever wondered why two people can go through the same situation and come out feeling completely different?
Or why someone can say something that stings you deeply, while another person might just brush it off?
It’s not that you’re too sensitive.
It’s that we all live through a lens — a way of seeing the world — and that lens is shaped by what we’ve been through, what we believe about ourselves, and how safe we feel in the moment.
In this module, we begin to explore something quietly powerful:
The way you see is not always the way things are. And when your inner world has been bruised, confused, or overwhelmed — especially after heartbreak — it can colour everything around you without you even realising.
We’re going to shine a gentle light on your current lens — not to judge it, but to understand it.
Because once you become aware of it, you get to choose a new one. A softer one. One that allows you to respond rather than react, to feel safer in your skin, and to reclaim the story you tell yourself about who you are.
Learn what perception really is — and why it’s been running in the background of your life.
Discover how your past experiences may have shaped the way you see yourself and others.
Begin to understand how others’ behaviour is often about them, not you.
Explore what it feels like to challenge a perspective that’s been keeping you stuck.
Try gentle ways to shift your lens so you can feel more in control of how you respond to life.
Feel a sense of possibility — like you’re not trapped in one version of yourself or your life.
You’ll start to notice that there’s more than one way to see things, and that even small shifts in your perception can bring more peace, self-kindness, and emotional freedom.
Forgiveness isn’t saying what happened was okay. It’s saying I’m ready to be free.
Have you ever felt the weight of something you just couldn’t let go of, a moment, a person, a decision living rent-free in your heart?
Like every time you think of it, your stomach flips or your chest tightens?
You’re not alone. And no, you’re not broken. You’re human.
In this module, we gently walk into one of the most misunderstood and life-changing acts of healing: forgiveness.
But not the kind you’ve been told you should offer. This isn’t about letting anyone off the hook or pretending it didn’t matter. This is about you.
It’s about choosing to release the emotional hold a painful memory or person has over you — not because they deserve peace, but because you do.
Forgiveness, in this context, is an act of reclaiming your energy, lightening the emotional load, and saying to yourself, “I matter more than this pain.”
Begin to explore what forgiveness really means (and what it doesn’t).
Understand the emotional and energetic cost of holding on.
Learn how your heart can carry pain without you even realising it.
Be gently guided to reflect on what you’re ready to release.
Use reflective journaling, simple practices, and quiet mirror moments to soften the hold of resentment or regret.
Feel lighter and more emotionally spacious.
Understand that forgiveness is a gift you give yourself.
Begin to loosen the grip of pain, shame, or anger that’s been weighing you down.
Take your next step forward, not out of hurt, but out of healing.
The words you speak to yourself aren’t just sounds, they’re the foundation of your confidence. What you say shapes how you feel, how you act, and, ultimately, how you show up in your life.
What’s inside:
In this module, you’ll gently discover the incredible power your words have over your confidence and your daily experience.
You’ll learn how to notice the stories you tell yourself, the ones that lift you up and the ones that hold you back and how to start shifting your language in ways that support your healing and growth.
By the end of this module, you will:
Feel more aware of the language you use with yourself and understand how small shifts in your words can lead to bigger changes in your confidence and mindset.
Remember, your words are your first step to reclaiming your power. Speak kindly, speak truthfully, and watch your confidence grow.
Phase 3 - Courage
Embrace Your Fears & Use Them to Fuel Your Growth
Embrace your fears and use them to fuel your growth.
Fear can feel like a wall, one that’s too high to climb and too heavy to break through. But what if fear isn’t here to stop you, but to guide you?
What if it’s not the enemy, but a quiet messenger whispering reminders of what matters to you most?
In this module, you’ll begin to understand fear in a completely new way. Not as something to fight or avoid, but as something to listen to and even befriend.
Whether it’s the fear of failing, the fear of starting again, or the fear that things won’t work out… you’ll start to see how these feelings, while uncomfortable, are also completely human and completely workable.
This is not about becoming fearless. It’s about learning how to hear the voice of courage even when fear is present… and how to take one small, brave step at a time.
Learn what fear really is and why it shows up (especially during change and growth).
Identify the hidden fears that may be holding you back.
Begin to respond to fear with compassion instead of criticism.
Discover simple tools to move forward even when you're afraid.
Understand how to distinguish fear’s protective voice from your intuitive truth.
Feel more grounded and courageous in the face of uncertainty.
Trust yourself to take aligned steps forward, even when the outcome isn’t guaranteed.
💬 Fear may whisper... but so does courage. You just have to know which voice to listen to. And you're learning how to listen to the one that leads you home.
Turning failure into fuel for your future
Have you ever looked back at a choice you made and thought, “How could I have done that?”
Or replayed a moment again and again, wishing you’d done something differently?
This module is your invitation to gently put down the heavy labels of failure, mistake, or “not enough.”
Because what if the times you’ve fallen were not proof that you’re broken but part of how you’re becoming?
You’re not alone if you’ve felt like you’ve failed. But holding on to that story keeps you stuck. This is where you begin rewriting it with compassion, courage, and grace.
In this module, you will:
💗 Explore the beliefs you’ve carried around failure, success, and self-worth.
💗 Begin to forgive yourself for the things you wish you’d done differently.
💗 Learn how to reframe setbacks as sacred lessons and stepping stones.
💗 Identify the internal language that keeps you in a cycle of shame — and begin shifting it.
💗 Discover how to move forward even when the path isn’t perfect.
By the end of this module, you will:
This is where you stop measuring yourself by your setbacks and start honouring yourself for your willingness to rise again.
You’re not starting from scratch. You’re starting from experience, from growth, from strength.
You’re not behind. You’re on your way.
And you are already brave enough to begin again.
Quieting your inner critic and embracing radical self-compassion
Have you ever caught yourself saying things to yourself that you’d never say to someone you love?
That quiet voice in your head… the one that whispers “you’re not good enough,” “you should be over this by now,” or “you always mess things up.”
That voice can be so convincing, but it isn’t you. It’s a pattern. A habit. A protection mechanism built over years of being judged, hurt, or simply not shown how to love yourself.
In this module, you’ll gently begin to quiet that inner critic, not by fighting it, but by meeting it with something stronger: compassion.
You’ll learn what true self-care really means; not bubble baths and candles (unless you love those), but the deeper care that comes from treating yourself with kindness, patience, and presence.
In this module, you will:
💗 Identify the voice of your inner critic and where it may have come from
💗 Learn how to pause and respond with self-compassion instead of self-judgment
💗 Discover the difference between self-care and self-compassion — and how they work together
💗 Begin practicing gentle tools like compassionate journaling, mirror work, and emotional check-ins
💗 Replace harsh self-talk with kind, empowering inner language
By the end of this module, you will:
▪ Feel more connected to yourself in a nurturing, loving way.
▪ Recognise your inner critic without letting it define you.
▪ Understand how self-compassion is the most powerful courage-builder of all.
▪ Have practical, daily tools to begin choosing grace over guilt and kindness over criticism.
This isn’t about becoming someone new, it’s about finally being kind to the woman you already are.
You are not the voice that doubts you.
You are the love that continues to show up again and again. Let’s turn down the volume of judgment… and turn up the kindness within.
Phase 4 - Connection
Design a Future with Clarity & Purpose
Reclaiming the voice within
Have you ever had that quiet gut feeling...
A knowing deep down that something felt off or absolutely right before you could even explain why?
Maybe you’ve ignored it in the past.
Maybe life taught you to second-guess yourself, to outsource your decisions, to doubt your inner voice.
But what if the truth is…
That voice was never wrong.
You just didn’t know how to trust it.
In this module, we begin the gentle work of reconnecting with your inner guide—the soft, steady presence within that always knows what’s right for you.
You’ll learn how to distinguish your intuition from fear or overthinking, and how to recognise the subtle ways your body, your energy, and your heart are always speaking to you.
This isn’t about being perfect or getting it right every time.
It’s about learning to trust yourself again—bit by bit, choice by choice.
In this module you will:
✨ Learn the difference between your inner critic and your intuitive voice.
✨ Explore the quiet signals your body uses to guide you (and what they really mean).
✨ Begin using your inner compass to make decisions from a place of peace, not pressure.
✨ Discover tools to strengthen your intuitive connection through journaling, stillness, and self-reflection.
✨ Reclaim trust in your own timing, truth, and knowing.
By the end of this module...
You’ll no longer need to look outside yourself for every answer.
You’ll begin to experience the strength that comes from tuning in and honouring your own truth—without second-guessing.
You’ll have met your quiet guide.
And she’s been here all along.
Designing a future with clarity and purpose.
Have you ever caught yourself daydreaming… only to shut it down with,
“Be realistic.”
“Now isn’t the time.”
“People like me don’t get to have that.”
What if those dreams weren’t unrealistic… but sacred reminders?
Whispers from the part of you that never left — the part that still believes in beauty, in joy, in possibility.
You’ve already begun the powerful work of returning to yourself.
Now, it’s time to lift your gaze and gently start creating a life that reflects who you truly are — and always were.
This isn’t about becoming someone new.
It’s about coming home to the woman who’s been waiting beneath the heartbreak and the heaviness —
The one who still dares to dream.
In this module, you will:
By the end of this module, you’ll:
✨ Feel connected to your deepest desires—not the ones shaped by others, but the ones rooted in you.
✨ Have a clear, inspiring vision of what you're creating moving forward.
✨ Trust that it’s not only okay to want more—it’s your birthright.
✨ Walk away with a heartfelt plan that’s grounded in self-trust and quiet confidence.
💭 You’re not chasing a new version of yourself. You’re returning to the woman who’s been quietly waiting to be seen again.
Calibrating your energy and stepping into your dream life
Have you ever felt like you’re carrying so much inside all the lessons, the healing, the shifts, but you’re just not quite sure how to pull it all together and truly live the life you’ve been dreaming of?
That’s exactly what this module is for.
This is your moment to take everything you have learned, the forgiveness, the courage, the quiet guidance, the kindness you’ve cultivated and weave it into a clear, powerful intention for your future.
It’s about stepping off the sidelines and actively designing a life that feels good, that lights you up, and that aligns with the woman you are already deep down inside.
In this module, you will:
By the end of this module, you will:
Your future isn’t something distant or uncertain, it’s already being shaped by the woman you are today.
With intention, clarity, and kindness, you’re ready to step fully into the life you’ve dreamed of.
A life that’s yours to live and love.
Dr Safou Salami
Deborah is someone with absolute character — warm, grounded, and deeply passionate about this programme.
She makes you want to become a person of increase and honestly, that’s the highest compliment I can give.
Your Invitation to Begin Again
You’ve already survived the storm. You’ve held it all together. You’ve given everything to everyone else.
But now...
It’s your turn.
This isn’t just a programme.
This is a soul-deep homecoming to the woman you’ve always been underneath the heartbreak, the noise, and the expectations.
You don’t need fixing.
You need space to remember who you are — and the tools to rebuild from that truth.
And that’s exactly what REGAIN YOUR LIFE™ offers.
✨ A proven path.
✨ Gentle, powerful support.
✨ A safe place to land, rise, and begin again.
If your heart’s whispering “maybe this is what I’ve been looking for…” — trust it.
The next chapter of your life doesn’t start with a dramatic reinvention.
It starts with a quiet yes.
⟶ Join Regain Your Life™ Today
Choose the plan that meets you where you are:
You may still be wondering?
"Can I really do this?"
Yes, my love — you can. You’ve already survived so much. This program isn’t about pushing or performing. It’s about guiding you gently, month by month, to remember who you are beneath the pain. You don’t need to be ready — just willing.
"What if I don’t have the time?"
I hear you. That’s exactly why I created this as a 12-month journey. No pressure. No overwhelm. Just small, soul-deep shifts that meet you where you are. Each month holds space for you to exhale, reflect, and rise — at your pace, not anyone else’s.
"I’ve tried other things. What makes this different?"
This isn’t another course you download and forget. REGAIN YOUR LIFE™ after Divorce is a lived experience. It’s built on real healing — the same process I walked through after losing everything. It’s personal. Sacred. Transformational. You won’t be alone for a single step.
"Will this really help me feel like me again?"
It won’t just help you feel like you again… it will help you reconnect with the version of you that was never truly lost. Not a new you. Not a performative you. But your true self — softer, stronger, wiser, and deeply at peace.
"Is it selfish to invest in myself right now?"
Oh friend… it’s not selfish. It’s sacred. You’ve held everyone else together for so long. This is your time. Your permission slip. Your quiet revolution. And I’ll be right here, every step of the way.
"What if I fall apart during the process?"
Then you fall… into safety. Into support. Into a space where breaking down is part of breaking through. This journey was created for the woman who’s still tender, still healing. You don’t need to hold it all together here — you get to be held.
Your Yes Begins Here.
And it Changes Everything.
Every woman has a moment when the old way of living no longer fits.
This… is yours.
When you say yes to this journey, you're not just joining a program.
You're crossing a threshold.
You're reclaiming your life — not piece by piece, but as a whole woman, ready to rise.
This is the yes that changes everything:
INCLUDES:
✨ The QC Method™ — A Soul-Deep Framework
Four transformational phases (Clarity, Choice, Courage, Connection) designed to rebuild you from the inside out.
Value: Priceless
✨ 12 Guided Modules That Walk You Home to Yourself
Gentle, compassionate guidance delivered monthly to meet you where you are and keep you moving forward.
Value: £2,000
✨ Nervous System Support Tools
Guided meditations, confidence resets, and reflection practices to soothe, calm, and empower you on your healing journey.
Value: £1,000
✨ Quiet Mirror Moments™, Journaling Prompts & Mindset Tools
Powerful daily practices to shift your inner dialogue and reconnect with your true self.
Value: £1,000
✨ A Nurturing, Soulful Community
A safe space where you are seen, heard, and lifted by women walking the same path.
Value: £1,200
✨ 12 Months of Access to Your Private Online Hub
All course materials — videos, audios, workbooks, meditations — available anytime, at your pace, for the full year of your journey.
Value: £1,000
✨ Monthly Live Coaching & Support Calls With Me
Real-time coaching, hot seat breakthroughs, and personalized guidance to keep your transformation on track.
Value: £3,000
Total Value: Over £9,200
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I’m Deborah, a confidence & self-trust mentor for divorced women, and the founder of QUIETLY Confident Women.
But before any of that, I’m a woman who’s walked through heartbreak, reinvention, and rediscovery — just like you.
This work isn’t just what I do. It’s who I am.
I created this journey because it’s the one I needed myself — and I want every woman who feels lost, broken, or not-enough to know: you are none of those things.
You are whole. You are powerful. And your life is far from over.
You don’t need to fix yourself. You just need to find your way back to you.
And I’d be honoured to walk beside you as you do.
This Is What’s Possible For You, Too
These stories are not just reflections — they are reminders. Of what becomes possible when you give yourself the space to heal, grow, and come home to who you truly are.
Deborah was very supportive in helping me find solutions, especially ones that suited me and my lifestyle.
As a result, I have started to gain a new perspective on what I really want and have expanded my thinking on what I can achieve right now and where to put my focus, to get things done for my future goals too.
Working with Deborah has been enlightening, heartfelt, and safe — like finally having someone I could truly talk to.
Over the weeks we’ve spent together, I’ve not only started to move forward, but I’ve realised something even deeper:
I am worthy. I am enough.
I had the pleasure of working with Deborah for a few months, and I’ve never met anyone more passionate or committed to helping others.
She gives selflessly and shows up wholeheartedly for her clients — always.
Deborah has a gift for unlocking what’s already inside you, even when you’ve forgotten it’s there.
Deborah is incredibly supportive and always knows exactly how to help me stay focused. She listens deeply and makes me feel truly heard.
What I love most is how she gently pulls me back to the heart of the conversation, helping me see that every challenge I face matters—but also showing me how to tackle them one step at a time.
That balance of care and clear guidance has been invaluable on my journey.
Today was such a breakthrough — I gained clarity about where I’m really headed. We worked through so much in such a short time, and it feels like I’ve finally had a brain dump.
All the mind-chatter and things that were weighing me down have quietened. It’s like a weight has been lifted, and I’m ready to move forward with a lighter heart and clearer mind.
Working with Deborah has truly been life-changing. What made the biggest difference for me wasn’t just the support or the insights — it was the simple, powerful tools she gave me that I could actually use in my everyday life.
I started applying them little by little, and over time, I noticed a real shift. I stopped second-guessing myself, I began setting boundaries without guilt, and I started feeling like me again. This journey has helped me reconnect with myself in a way I didn’t think was possible.
Deborah doesn’t just inspire you — she equips you to live differently.
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Regain Your Life™ is a 12-month transformational journey, thoughtfully structured to support lasting change. Each month, a new module opens, guiding you step-by-step through the process without overwhelm or pressure. This pacing allows you to fully integrate the lessons, reflect deeply, and build your confidence steadily—because true healing and growth take time, patience, and kindness to yourself.
The program is divided into 12 monthly modules, each carefully designed to build on the last for a powerful, lasting transformation. You’ll start with foundational self-awareness and healing, then move through clarity, choice, courage, and connection—the core phases of the QC Method™. Each module combines coaching, reflection, and practical tools to help you reconnect with yourself and confidently create the life you want.
Yes! Regain Your Life™ is a “join anytime” program. Whenever you’re ready to start your journey, the current module will be waiting for you. This flexibility lets you begin exactly when the timing feels right for you, without the pressure of fixed start dates.
This program is designed to support women at all stages of their personal development journey, whether you’re just starting out or already have experience. Each module is carefully structured to guide you step-by-step, with the work broken down into manageable, actionable pieces. You don’t need any prior experience—just a willingness to show up for yourself and embrace the process. Remember, transformation begins with one small step, and I’ll be with you every step of the way.
While Regain Your Life™ is created with the post-divorce woman in mind, any woman who feels lost, stuck, or ready to reclaim her confidence and true self after a big life change will find powerful support here. It’s a gentle yet deep journey to reconnect with your worth and step into a life that feels truly yours.
Because you gain immediate access to all program materials and live coaching, refunds are not available. This program is designed for women who are truly ready to commit to their growth and transformation. If you dedicate at least 1–2 hours a week to engaging with the content and applying the tools in the Regain Your Life Program, I am confident that it will create a profound change in your life. When you show up for yourself and do the work, the results will follow—because the process works when you work it.
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